The Family Tradition of Domestic Abuse Ends Here

Let’s take a break from my usual topic of sexual assault to discuss something else that affects my life quite a bit: domestic abuse. Long story short, I witnessed verbal abuse, and occasionally physical abuse, directed at my mom until she left my dad when I was 17. I heard that my dad’s dad was verbally abusive toward my grandma, and rumor has it that my grandpa’s parents were also in an abusive relationship. I even see the signs in my uncles. So I guess you could say this runs in the family.

But I’m going to break the chain. Continue reading The Family Tradition of Domestic Abuse Ends Here

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Why is Spanking Children Still Legal?

Trigger warning: child abuse (and brief mentions of domestic abuse, elder abuse and animal abuse)

If I hit my boyfriend right now, it would be completely rational to call the police.

If I hit my grandma right now, it would be completely rational to call the police.

If I hit a dog right now, it would be completely rational to call the police.

If I had a child and spanked them, a lot of people would shrug and do nothing. Continue reading Why is Spanking Children Still Legal?